alright so before we begin i'm going to say it is a bit racey the command you will be exicuting with this, Ross Jeffries Taught me well

The Moduel Starts off by the exercise done in this video
YouTube - Reflexology and Sex


when your in repore with someone and you bring up they looked tired or stress and start talking, and take the conversation the route of how fascinated you are with Reflexology.

Then take there hand and start doing what the 2nd half of the video does and as they really start to enjoy it you can embed the NLP comand
its like you can really imagen me "cumming" inside you (rythmic pause) and massaging the different parts of your body.

I was inspired when I had a difficult challenge with someone who was a "prude"

Its really something when you can get someone to imagen them having sex with you as they feel very sexual feelings at the same time.

Nathan,

I know name-calling is bad, but, none-the-less, you are a *weirdo*.

Venus

Nathan, I'm glad you were inspired ... Venus, I'm curious what surrounding "weirdo" with asterisks does to modify the meaning you normally use for that word, and what that meaning is?

Nathan, thanks for that video... I personally love refloxology, it just feels so good, and maybe does nice things to my energy circulation.

My interest in the exercise would be to help my current or potential lover relax and feel just as good as our bodies can when we're enjoying soft, caring touch... (or talking about this to set up a nice frame )

Because it's amazing how when you let relaxation in, not only the busy world, but all your tension can melt away...
And there can be nothing but now...

But that's also the frame I like to have massage in anyway...which I do see as a nice way to connect...and I like connecting with people.

Nathan, you say you were inspired... how did your inspiration play out? If 'success'-full or 'success'-partial, what other elements were in play: relationship, setting, vibe up till then, other kinds of escalating not language based (or mostly nonverbal)?

(this reminds me of a forum post earlier of what can sometimes happen when men jump into sharing their interest in SS publicly... there was a common fear of what women might think... that in subtle or overt ways, there might be reactions squelching curiosity and discussion -- Venus, I hope that's not what you intended to do, or what happens as a result... I think maybe if you could tell me what you are reacting to, and a bit more of your experience, I know that would be helpful to me understanding where you are; in many posts I've seen of you, you seem very thoughtful and to spread a broad wing of encouragement to others ... trailing question?)

Back to this thread... I'm reminded of a note by Ross Jeffries about the "Connection" patterns not working for some women (or men -- I open this to all gender-gender configurations ) because it is F*cking, not C*nnecting that those individuals want...

I hope this continues

Mostly it was inspired through a pick up Ross did to a dancer. Ross looked at her with deep sincerity and said I love dancer, its like when your dancing your becoming someone else, Someone is Cumming Inside of you, and you just become medium to be submissive to this energy that "cums" into this opening.

-Ross isnt known for pulling punches when it comes to his embedded phrases lol-

So I thought what if I could actually feel like and had a frame of mind that I was actually coming into this persons body and at the same time give them relaxing and powerful sexual feelings about me and what I was doing. As They are intrigued by Reflexology and how I can show them something new about them selfs, in more ways than one

I think it's great not to pull punches with embedded commands! I am also not into punching potential love interests, nor punching bags in continual "preparation." One trap I know I've caught myself in before is the one of developing endless potential scenarios of where to use what in which way. I see this as the difference between "developed" and developing. We need the feedback loop of "tried this ---> results happened" so that we can calibrate.

So what we have here, I think is a great conversation about developing this model... a chance to play together into - How can we introduce openness to exploring sensual feelings and strengthen it through nelping.

To me, the feedback cycle is extremely important in discovering: "Did this work how I thought it would?" And from there on into new experiments.

So, I'd like to invite a couple of things: Venus, I'm warmly awaiting your response -- I think it is a conversation that would benefit our community; I'd like to hear from "tried and true" and "tried and 'false' " experiments in SS, perhaps something similar to the proposal Nathan entered.

Sincerely,

Jonathan

Hmmm. This made me feel "elevated" and "relaxed", but not sexually or physically excited. It was more like a detachment from the body.

Steve,
Just watching the video wasn't meant to get you sexually excited. the concept is to use one good feeling to segue into another good feeling (state). If you are familiar with process language this should be obvious. Actually you should be able to talk about almost anything and then slide into another state for whatever purpose you have in mind.

Nathan,

Although I think rubbing a girls feet or any kind of massage on someone you just met is cheesey (most of the time), the way you worked these two concepts into a routine is great. I like that you are thinking outside the box. Keep it up.
That embedded command is good but just make sure you control your state when delivering it because I'm pretty sure you will notice SOME sort of quick reaction from her. That line will get processed both ways by her mind. Just keep talking, being calm/confident and hopefully you are throwing SEVERAL commands in there while building the state because one command doesn't do SH--.

Jacob