Hi all,

I have a lot of inner game issues that I want to work on using NLP. I want to be able to see a girl and decide to approach her without worrying about her reaction, other peoples reaction, my reaction etc.

Thanks guys!

Hi JT

Interesting statement, but no question!

'Inner game' is a great place to start - when you're at ease with yourself, your vibe is attractive to others. This can be worked on with hypnosis products, and I'm sure someone here can recommend a few. Here are some concepts you may like to play with in the meantime:

* you are always at least the equal of others

* no-one can take anything away from you

* you do not need validation from anyone

* you are generous but not buying affection

* you know what you want but are not needy

* being with you is a great opportunity

Be well!

Also known as "approach anxiety" perhaps. We love to give things labels dont we!

The big question to ask yourself is "What would happen if I dont approach her?"

JT,

This is a good site with informative threads that is more focussed on "inner game" www.puaforum.co.uk

Also I would look into Ross Jeffries products he has one called "Nail your inner game" (I Think)

Jason

Try the 4 CD-set High Performance Mind by Anna Wise.

Using the set systematically would enable you to accomplish several things. The first recordings train your brainwaves to access and develop the specific frequencies that are essential for the Awakened Mind brainwave pattern. The later recordings cover methods and techniques for helping you to learn how to use the Awakened Mind brainwave state to develop a High Performance Mind.

Disc 4, and especially the piece titled Transformation applies very effecitve NLP pattern called Six Step Reframe, which is perfect tool to help you resolve the inner conflict (i.e. game) that manifests itself externally (in consciousness) as the context you seem to have found yourself in at the moment.

It is a tool that would serve you for years...