Redsimo wrote:

I do not have ADD but I also find it difficult to see what points you try and make. If you could cut out the useless parts of your posts then we will be left with some very short posts and maybe then some useful points may appear.

Right.

It looks as if very few people actually get what points you are attempting to make. Is anyone here benefitting from the points you are trying to make? or are your posts... well.. pointless? We all know about who is responsible for the response you get to your communication.

Right

I believe that you believe that you are being helpful and I have just read all of your posts on this thread with the intention of slating your attempts at being "Older and perhaps wiser" than the rest of us. But I see something very different. I dont see a confident and capable professional that is for sure. Rather than someone who is impressing his peers by demonsrating exceptional skills and knowledge I see something very different happening. Lets be honest, you dont know who you are older and wiser than on this forum? but you are willing to hide your knowledge and experience behind loaded compliments and school playground insults, if you got the magic then let it shine!

Right

Come on.. put up or shut up!

Right

You can take this as free feedback or as a list of insults, the type of person you are and how capable you are of using your NLP skills will determine which way you take it.

Right

Enjoy your insults.

Carol,

Right.

A point well put and from the response you got, I am guessing it hit home!

Thanks

Matt

David, you are in a safe place here, dont be afraid to show your venerabilities and inferiority... I love you x

Right.

Bye.

Wrong day you see.

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Redsimo wrote:

We all know about who is responsible for the response you get to your communication.

Dontcha just enjoy the poor feckless, incompetent luvvies who travel through life looking to blame other people for their own behaviour son?

Get a life Mark, you do what you do because you want to do it. You and some of the other semi-intelligent and semi-literate yoyos in here attack folk because you have no other weapons. Intellect is denied you so you become abusive to revenge yourself on a world which rejected you long long ago.

Its pathetic really Mark, you must have had some seriously unfortunate things happen to you.

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aikijason wrote:

Hey David you managed to swing the thread off topic and back on to you again....

I love you xxx

I literally peed my pants when I read this and I don't know why. It gets my vote for Post of the Year and it's still April.

Mark,
I don't think Mystery is as dishonest as you think. In fact, I know he says on the videos that your goals may be different, maybe just to meet Mrs. Right or to sleep with many women. What his techniques will do for you is help you meet a woman and challenge her. By the way, there is a lot more out there you could really benefit from. However, if you have Ross' Unstopable Confidence, listen to it every day.

ReptilesBlade wrote:

Other options may present themselves as well, the LARPing Adrian just mentioned could be one but this is the first time I have ever heard of the term. I will be looking into it as well. If you could expand upon it in any way I would greatly appreciate it Adrian.

LARP stands for Live Action Role Play. Meaning, instead of sitting round a table rolling dice, where the focus is often on the social aspect as much as the game, you get to improvise a story in realtime with other players, along with referee types. Quite often, people wear costumes, and have fake weapons. Many interactions are roleplayed, some will have some kind of rules.

Why I recommend it is because it's a more active way to use your imagination than what happens around a table. Also, more women are involved in LARPing than tabletop roleplay. And many of them like to dress up as vampires, elves, and the like. Can you see where I'm headed with this..? ;-)

adrian r wrote:

LARP stands for Live Action Role Play. Meaning, instead of sitting round a table rolling dice, where the focus is often on the social aspect as much as the game, you get to improvise a story in realtime with other players, along with referee types. Quite often, people wear costumes, and have fake weapons. Many interactions are roleplayed, some will have some kind of rules.

Why I recommend it is because it's a more active way to use your imagination than what happens around a table. Also, more women are involved in LARPing than tabletop roleplay. And many of them like to dress up as vampires, elves, and the like. Can you see where I'm headed with this..? ;-)

Yes... yes I can. Thank you. So what you are referring to is a form of Cosplay?

And those earlier links to the two D&D groups have grown to be more fruitful that I anticipated. I apparently accidentally stumbled upon a massive web ring. They are a part of what is essentially a much larger internet portal to a massive social networking site that has independent local groups for nearly everything under the sun, including at least two large singles groups in my area with tens of thousands of members. They also have another advantage I have not seen before in any other type of online dating or social networking site; their members actually actively get together and do things usually on at least a weekly basis.

I will see what I can do to find a LARPing group there as well. I have only just scratched the surface of what may be possible.



Venus, I have set up a time with a therapist for the earliest date I could of May 13th. I wanted sooner but that was the best they could do. I am still wondering if you could explain the difference between this and a support group.



Carol, I am still looking forward to your response to my question answers.



Tony, my goals are clearly different from Mystery's. I am only looking for one young woman and I have no desire to employ anything underhanded to achieve that goal. As I mentioned of the material I have actually tried to incorporate so far of the PUA stuff it was all material that can benefit all aspects of my life. I often downloaded it in bulk and if a cursory glance showed it to be only about how to convince women to get into bed with you as fast as possible and then move onto the next target I more or less chose to ignore it. I deleted as much as I kept. At least by working hard on my body language and inner game as David Deangelo calls it along with some important lessons from Richard Bandler I know I actually have a chance now.

I will burn Unstoppable Confidence onto a CD or two and listen to it on the drive to and from work, which provides a nice 35-45 minute time of solace twice a day where I can listen to it and find out the best ways to incorporate it into my life if it is of any benefit of me. To be honest it was in the mostly uncategorized bundle and at this time I have never gotten around to giving it any attention.



David.

1. I am now recognizing some of the negative behavior and actively attempting to root it out and eliminate it. It will take time but it will eventually be accomplished.

2. Any Christian worth his salt will tell you God helps those who help themselves. That is what I am actively trying to do now and have been since the beginning of my posting on here, this was the only method I had to use having exhausted everything else I could possibly come up with on my own.

3. I feel that following up with the Dungeons and Dragons idea is what I need at least as a starting point for meeting new people of both genders and hopefully making some new friends. It is not the end result, only a starting place and for all I know I could wind up hating it and moving on to something else quickly as I was never fond of table top games.

LARPing will be the next step if nothing else.

4. Cease your attacks upon me and the other posters in this topic. I do not know what kind of moderation this forum has but if you continue to attack myself and others for no foreseeable reason I will attempt to discover and utilize them.

This topic is not about flame wars or trolling of any kind.



Ok, I am off to spend the evening cooking and entertaining friends. I will check back in later tonight or tomorrow morning.

Mark,
Do not forget that at any given time Mystery is usually involved in a long-term relationship. Yes, he has slept with a lot of women, however, he is always seeking a girl for the long haul. I'm not sure he advocates anything underhanded, he just utilizes certain primitive structures in the brain to seduce. And seduction, Mark, is not a bad word. I think you may have been to quick to dismiss the info as there is a lot that I know for a fact would help you break out of your shell.