I met a girl a recently in a pub with friends, long story short; she went for me, I was colder/wetter than a North Sea catch of the day. I went home that night and decided I liked her after all and also this horrible feeling of guilt came over me that not reciprocating may have caused her hurt somehow. Time passed, as it does, she now has a boyfriend and now I'm stuck with her on my mind.

Thing is I'm not really looking for a relationship at all right now but I have 'feelings' for this girl, very strong, I don't want them and I want her out of my mind. Is there any particular technique that can help put out the flames of attraction so I can 'get passed' this girl and not feel sick when I see her with another bloke?

Cheers.