If outer people think you are a joke or a retard; how can you use nlp to beat that.

IN my mind you can not use modalities since it is outer peoples emotion we talk about. You can't associatiion or disassociate for the same reason.


What are your input how do you stop caring about what outer people think?

How do you know they think that? Did they tell you?

How do they know what you think they know about you? Why do you think they're right? Did they administer your IQ test?

How do you know they think that? Did they tell you?

You assume that i am wrong; i believe that i am rigth.

How do they know what you think they know about you?

They do not care about what i think

Why do you think they're right?

It isn't about being rigth, it is about being socialy accepted.

Did they administer your IQ test?

Isn't that off topic, and isn't that an insult?


The topic is; How do you stop caring about what peaple think about you!

No, details will be given, it is a general topic.

How do you know they think that? Did they tell you?

You assume that i am wrong; i believe that i am rigth.

Chris is just getting information by asking you. Its not an assumption, its a question to clear the assumption. On the other hand i am assuming that you are the one who is assuming that he is making assumption about you.

How do they know what you think they know about you?

They do not care about what i think

Its not the answer to the question chris asked, its answer to some other question which was never asked

Just a question to you

How did you think just now when Chris used NLP to help you?

Nishith88 wrote:

Chris is just getting information by asking you. Its not an assumption, its a question to clear the assumption. On the other hand i am assuming that you are the one who is assuming that he is making assumption about you.

[/B]Its not the answer to the question chris asked, its answer to some other question which was never asked

I have a hard time to understand that.

Nishith88 wrote:

Just a question to you

How did you think just now when Chris used NLP to help you?

It dosen't help at all, sorry!

Ted wrote:

I had a hard time to understand that.



It dosen't help at all!

In simple words, Chris was not assuming anything about you. He was asking you questions to for him to get clarity.

One of the purpose of asking questions is to make sure we don't assume anything.

So all this was some kind of satire, let me quote what i said:

"No, details will be given, it is a general topic."

But lets make something up; lets say i am fat as hell; and i suffer beacuse outer people judge me because i am fat. It is da same kind of deal you care about what outer people think!

Happy? or more Satire?

Ted wrote:

So all this was some kind of satire, let me quote what i said:

"No, details will be given, it is a general topic."

But lets make something up; lets say i am fat as hell; and i suffer beacuse outer people judge me because i am fat. It is da same kind of deal you care about what outer people think!

Happy? or more Satire?

Even in case of a general topic getting information is essential part of using NLP and hence i would suggest you to get a coach who you can share your details with.

Still there could be someone who can help you without getting into details.

At the very basic level i would say - Being in a desired state (Powerful/happy/fun etc) is in your control. It totally depends on how you choose to be in your desired state while as you think when outer people judged you.

You can stop acting retarded.

Ted wrote:

You assume that i am wrong;

And your evidence for that claim is?

i believe that i am rigth.

And that belief is based on what evidence?

They do not care about what i think

Evidence?

It isn't about being rigth, it is about being socialy accepted.

Great! So you're willing to acknowledge that you're wrong about what people are thinking if it means you'll be socially accepted? That's a huge first step.

Isn't that off topic, and isn't that an insult?

No, it wasn't an insult, actually, but are you going to let that stop you from believing it was one? Why miss an opportunity to feel unaccepted?

The topic is; How do you stop caring about what peaple think about you!

Well, you do something else, obviously.

No, details will be given, it is a general topic.

I've respected your wish and have given no details.

Ted wrote:

If outer people think you are a joke or a retard; how can you use nlp to beat that.

IN my mind you can not use modalities since it is outer peoples emotion we talk about. You can't associatiion or disassociate for the same reason.


What are your input how do you stop caring about what outer people think?

Hey there Ted?

your last question is your clue.

How do YOU stop caring about what outer people think

it's NOT about other people but how YOU run things in your head.

So you don't use their emotions.. you use your emotions to change your reaction to what they are thinking.

makes sense?

what stops you from being ok with whateva people think about you?

have fun

Bart