I've been doing alot of reserch of NLP recently for personal issues.
The tools I've lernt have been very helpful and I blelief will progressivly become even better. However although finding clarity in my own issues I'm having one obstical in building my outcome. The outcome I've been creating is to get me through this period of studies at uni, as my degree show is a few months away, its not a course I will be sad to see the end of, in many ways its got in the way of my ambitions more than aided them. So I've experianced alot of anxioty and felt very fepressed last year, this is where my NLP reserch came into practise, what where real problems that cased this in the first place, manifested in my head into somthing I couldnt explain and therfore felt unable to ask for help.

Now with some clarity I can distinguesh between what problems where real and what came from my head. Step by step things have improved and I've built this happy outcome of myself this summer working on the beach and having fun to motivate me through this busy time. There is however one glitch in my outcome that I can't seem to fix, it appears to be to do with the one of the 'real' problems I had that put me on a downwards spiral last year. I hate to be so vauge but I find it explain what that problem is, I cannot even tell this to my closest freinds, despite the NLP reserch I remain quite thick skined in nature. But I think in this case I have good reason to be, as frankly I don't think its somthing some of my freinds would understand, at least not imidiatly, and relaving such things would greatly sabotage my productive concentration at the moment.

That all said and done I think I need to consault a practitioner cofidentially to address this problem, as it I feel strongly now that this is the last dark cload in my life, and if I can fix it, I can finally focaus on the future and make it a good one.

The reason I make this thread is because I wanted to ask advise, I am a student in Brighton and I need to seek some profesional, confidential nlp help that won't cost an arm and a leg if at all possible. Any suggestions?

Hi Martin,

As you have been researching NLP, I expect that you are familliar with the 'Fast Phobia Cure', I would suggest that you try it in order to get a handle on the 'gap in your outcome'. It is a very robust tool and it will aid you in this area......providing that it is a 'physical event' with emotional consequences as a result.

If it is an 'emotional event' that led to physical consequences, try it anyway on the physical consequence, it will help give clarity to the 'emotional event' and remove the toxisity from it.

Others whom join this thread may have a different and equally successful approach, if not better.

Good Luck

Ger wrote:

As you have been researching NLP, I expect that you are familliar with the 'Fast Phobia Cure', I would suggest that you try it in order to get a handle on the 'gap in your outcome'. It is a very robust tool and it will aid you in this area......providing that it is a 'physical event' with emotional consequences as a result.

Careful. The FPC isn't a cure-all. It's specifically appropriate -- surprise, surprose -- to phobias, that is automatic responses to particular triggers. Which may or may not be relevant to this situation.

well I realise theres only so much can be said what with the lack of details. I just cannot bring myself to revaling it to anyone. All I can say is its somthing to do with choices I made in the past, all out of god intention, but non the less infomation that in the wrong hands could be used to undermine me.

I think the issue might be finding a way to tell my close freinds in the mos dignified and understandable way.