Hello community
Long time no see, i hope you are doing all great


I just wanted to ask something and if it ever happened to you -and how you dealt with it/would have dealt-


I have 2 friends from university, a boy and a girl.
We enjoy the time we are together and they sure ok people for fun and company.

The thing is... i feel sometimes its just the 2 of them and i am the third..

Firsts of all those 2 are in the same class in the same department of university.I am on different.I am saying this cause they have a more "student" and daily relationship than with me.

Ok, heres the deal.

When we see a movie for example those 2 literraly hug with eachother , and i am left alone in the corner alone..

When they are walking they hold hands and stuff, i am again aside ...

When we go to a beach at night to sit on the chairs, those 2 sit on one chair..

One time the boy sms-ed the girl to....pick him from his house cause he just woke up... while we were outside with others... the girl was frustated but...went from his place...and they came with us together later..
If i even told her such a thing she would never agree to that..for certain..

When we are outside and the boy is not with us, they sms-talk all time.
When i send her an sms just for fun and see what she is doing she just doesnt reply at all..


And no, its just friendly , not attraction from these 2 more than friendly, i know this for certain cause i talked to them sepparatly for this matter of "..tell me..you do see him/her more than friendly?" and they replied with a "hell no" but they meant it..
and also i know that the girl dont like some interior characteristics from the boy that block her surelly for a possible relationship.There is nothning erogenous thing going yet, but if they keep that way then something MAY happen..werever they like it or not.



There are many other situations that make this a 2+1 friendly relationship, at least as my point of view and i really feel like an outsider and sad for this.
Maybe is that i like the girl ,but not for a relationship or such for many reasons, but i deeply dont like those 2 to...be in a relationship, cause then i would be the true outsider who would be in the cofee watching them cuddle and playing..
Maybe i am too selfish for saying such thing and thinking only myself..but still.. i am too confused to think clearly cause of their (especially HERS) actions..
And also that the boy once was thinking like me now when we were 4 in the group (another boy) , and endep up the other boy to be labbeled as "enemy" by him cause that boy liked the girl for relationship...and was playing with holding hands,cuddling etc with her in front of the frustated other boy(the present one..)
Now he is doing almost the exact thing his former friend did..
Even he said to me once "Marcus , i dont feel good myself seeing those 2 together all time and me to be alone..."



I even thought of that, if they continue those NON FRIENDLY MOVES and games and finally the seed of attraction grows up to a plant and a tree.. i will just.... quit and go away..leave them to leave happily :/

I have other friends too, i believe in myself and dont rely on others, i will not loose my "dignity" and psychology for 2 people..thats for sure..

Its just.. i want to give this thing another try...
and if i leave them alone to "play" and abandon me in the corner i want to do it not because i have signs of jealousy and i am a bad friend who doesnt respect the hapiness of his friends, but because they dont know how to treat the other "third" friend not equaly..at least not making him feel weird




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Jealousy? This is a sign of two penises and one vag. Hey, if you and the other guy don't have a problem with your dicks and balls touching when each of you goes in one hole, I don't see a problem.

If you do have a problem with that thought, go find yourself a girlfriend, and stop hoping that you will get signs of affection from those two lovebirds.