| Re: The Skeptic's Dictionary James,
Maybe I am way off with this so I take no offence if you tell me I am wrong. I and I guess others knew of the pseudo scientific debate with NLP the very first time they heard of how NLP works. From that first discussion or from reading the first passage in a magazine the debate you claim we cannot see kicked off in each of our, and probably your heads. For me, Rich has bought nothing new to my debate and while I waited to be inspired and engaged while a passionate person bought something new to the table, I saw nothing apart from him alienate people from the debate with his jibes and insults tied to double binded statements. To use NLP terminology he broke rapport with the group he was talking at and they ceased to engage him in his preaching and the only response he wanted he never got, again, we know what NLP says about who is responsible for the responses we get. Each person acted on their own motives and how each chooses to act is their own call. I know many people who thrive on discussing God and I know the same people can be really turned off when being preached at by others peoples beliefs, which, I think is what Rich has done here. People, me included, enjoy debating anything but when the other people do not show respect and and open mind the debate becomes repetitive and the participants despondant. Rich showed very little interest in other peoples opinions and while that is his personal choice and he was shown respect when he did that, it does make for a poor discussion on a forum and not suprisingly the second thread where Rich preached on died a death.
Do you honestly think people cannot see for themselves the debate of NLP and/for/again/whether it really is worth another minutes thought regarding its association with scientific testing? Whether you can create an environment where people want to talk about it is up to you. Tougher things have been discussed on this forum and lets be honest we all enjoy a great debate. Has anyone said they cannot see the argument?
Rich has had an interested and participating audience and a great topic to debate, did we meet up away from the main forum page a plan an attack or a unified defence for Rich? No, or course not, but one by one people lost interest or dropped out of the conversation until one person pointed this out, that took the conversation in a new direction. Now with people like yourself trying to make some meaning to the reasons for the joke or fun on this thread, well, look at any other thread and see the same style jokes, do they mean the same as what you claim here? What is the difference?
Thanks
Matt
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