Hello,

I'm Alex and I recently moved to a new city.
I need to make new friends here but it seems hard to me to make the first steps.
Im like too serious, maybe tensioned, trying to appear cool and not to make a fool out of myself.
I dont smile much, I dont joke. Im always quiet and distant. And even when im asked something i answer in a "break raport" tone. As I am thinking I dont have much to say next and it would be awkward.
I only feel comfortable when I know I'm appreciated and wanted.
Basically Im not a fun person to be around with.

Whats an effective way to change this behavior using NLP?

Thanks
Alex

Put another hat on Alex. It doesnt have to be a hat though - could be sunglasses, could be the kind of outfit a confident person would wear. Know that when you put on your new hat you become the person you want to become. You'll be amazed at how effective this can be.

and dont forget you can take off the hat and be the old Alex later on ...if you still want to