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NLP practice session in Second Life - Free to all
Topic: 2nd Position in Second Life
Date: Monday 21 July
Time: 9pm GMT (1pm PST = 1pm Second Life Time (SLT))
Duration: 1.5 hours
Venue: http://slurl.com/secondlife/Enceladu...2520Soulutions
Cost: FREE

OPEN TO ALL

I was inspired to run this free evening event on the topic and uses of 2nd Position shifts on the back of this form thread's topic on Installing Compassion. Search the forum to read the full topic.

anony67 wrote: (link)
Sounds like a second position shift Nina.

Very, very interesting to use they're own strategy from second position, I'm going to start using it.

"from that position I could then decide how I would want people to respond" That's probably has more further reaching implications than one would know

Oooh cool, if you found that interesting, I should do that a workshop in SL "

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Tonight we can explore this technique in all it's forms. Come along and add your perspectives, ideas and thoughts.
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Nina assisted RB on his London seminars from 2001 - 2004 helping others to follow instructions for exercises given by him to his own high standards. She first trained in 1998 with McKenna Breen and then went on to Master and Trainer levels with Paul McKenna. She has a Diploma in Life Coaching from University of Newcastle and is a Certified Trainer of NLP approved by Richard Bandler Society of NLP
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Where in the world are we meeting?

Only thing is you will not have to travel to get to the venue, oh and it won't cost you a penny (on this occasion), and - I forgot to mention that you can attend from the the comfort of your own laptop/mac/pc - all you need is access to internet, and a headset with mic - have you worked it out yet? Yes! Its in Second Life! See you there - whoooo hooooo !!!!!

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I play Second Life, thugh I will miss this event due to work I am interested in joining your group! My SL name is ReptilesBlade Aeon. If you do not get a friend invite form me in 24 hours please send me one yourself.

Hi Nina, I can't make it, but I'm glad my comment inspired you! Please feel free to post here, or private message me, with any ideas, thoughts that anyone came up with. Also if someone wants a bit more information on 2nd position please private message me.

ok will do.. if anyone has any ideas about what other uses they use 2nd position for then we can practice some of those techniques too.

I like the one Paul McKenna uses for installing self-esteem and confidence for his weight loss clients - so I will take people through that one too ... hope some can make it, bu there will be other opportuntiues. I may just do once a month and see how things pick up.

I will continue to derive inspiration for practice topics from this forum It's given me a lift as doing the introduction every week was getting a bit repetative ..time for a change eheh

And what method does Paul McKenna use if you do not mind my asking?

ehheehehe you will have to come to the session to find out

But I know you said you can't make it - I will PM you the info after the workshop.

Ok!

I'd also suggest that 2nd position is critical for empathy

Stanford prison experiment - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Possibly people take on the behaviours of their perceived assigned identity. I have a friend who complains about her particular religious organization that when someone is given an authority position in the church suddenly they act on that, sometimes without any more training, meaning people's responsility increases, but their knoweldge doesn't. They get a new label and they start acting differently.

I'd suggest they were stuck in first position.

The Stanford Prison Experiment: A Simulation Study of the Psychology of Imprisonment That's the official website for it. I suggest watching the slide show which explains the experiment from beginning to finish. After you read it yoi'll ne surpirsed just how much people act out roles they see on televsion.

At work most people act out as being controlling, rather than operating from the paradigm that a leader's job is to serve, with great power comes great repsonsibility.

How can we used this to clean up our world and eradicate evil? I'd say the solution is to install patterns in chidlren when they're young. Condition in patterns of frequent 2nd and 3rd position shifts. I think the problem with human beings is our nervous system doesn't come wird at birth. We're way too adpatable to our environment.

Participants made use of the 3D models of 'humans' I built to represent 1st, 2nd and 3rd Positons.

After a brief introduction I had them step into all 3 positions to find different focusses. Such as 'seeing how the boss see's you as an employee, finding solutions based on the other persons veiw of you - then going to 3rd position to offer advice to self-(1st p).

How to use it in therapy, marketing, relationships etc.

We managed to assist one person in sorting an issue with a neighbour. He concluded that a bit of research would be the simple solution and then act accordingly. And another who wanted to gain insight to a millionnaire mind set, found a raft of qualities that he could take on for his own use.

I did find that I had them flitting from all positions naturally in order to become more adept in training their mind to do a quick assessment then make some conclusions on which to make better decisons in that context.

I think entraining this skill from a younge age would be great as you suggest Sam. Particularly with all the the knife crime that is happening at the moment.

I would like to do some deep trance identification at some stage in sl practice session - so please PM me if you would like to have that session and I will give you a heads up on that.

I do typically use voice now -(sl's version of skype) so more information is gained from that extra sensory channel in terms what I am able to get across. More will be available in the future but it's in its early development stages - according to the upper SL eschelons (sry about spellng)

Best wishes
Nina

Here is the link to the instructions he gives

Paul McKenna Somebody Who Loves You

Decided to post in thread instead

Best wishes
Nina

Awww man, I always remember too late about these things. Next time I go on SL is it okay if I add you as a friend Nina? My avatar name is 7th Magic btw.

Penny

Yes sure please do! Wow things are really picking up now - I just had a visitor from this site in Poland, and I showed him all my NLP toys that I use for delivering NLP in SL. NLP Polska - Światowa Jakość NLP w Polsce! - Start

I just demolished the NLP Store but will make a better one - but if you need a timeline or a wheel of life I am your girl ehehehe

I shall be building some other tools for assisting coaches and coachees get a better visual of what they need to in their rl mind based on what they 'see' in sl

Will post when the next one is due to happen

7th Magic is a cool name - I will add you soon as! )))

Best wishes
Nina