I frequently deliberately violate the meta model in order to package information in a certain way, to certain people. If I want to encourage someone to take something in without exception. I'll use the word always or never. I noticed I tend to use universal quantifiers the most. ie. People always feel badly for violating others, the real question is, how are you going to forgive him?

I'm also fond of presupposing something with the pattern 'the question isn't whether you'll get over this or not, because that's a given, the question is, what are you going to do in the mean time til you feel better?'

Does anybody else deliberately violate the meta model? What other patterns could be used?

Also if you use the meta model inversely you wouldn't get the milton model, would you?