hi all, i generally understand the way anchor works etc. but have a problem with understanding one particular thing, can you tell me if I'm right: when you're talking to a girl and you've just brought her to the place where she's very turned on, I understand that now you have to connect her feeling with yourself, right? to do not let her go home and to release the preasure with somebody else that very fine, but how. In most publication i've read autors say something like that: and now when you've got in the state you want, you pointing or showing on yourself, i understand that it does not meen literally that you have to point the finger towards yourself, I know that you first need to anchor to her some gesture that she'll subconciosly gonna connect automaticly with you, so my question is how to do it from the beginning of the conversation, is it enough that during all the convers with her, everytime when I mention myself I will be doing this one particular gesture? and than in the moment when she's turned on I just do this gesture again? that how it works?

ps. I know that poeple here might have a more serious problems so even more thanks for any clarifications