Hey everyone, my first thread started here...
I've been lurking and reading posts here and there, and have found that there are some on these forums that are generally interested in helping others, I appreciate that kind of humanity and thank everyone who is doing this 24/7/365. Now that my kissing ass is over

Not sure if this should be here or the seduction/relationship forum but here goes...

I was wondering if anyone could help me with a few issues I have currently on my mind constantly like a plague day in day out. Please note they are all equally important and I would be satisfied to have all problems resolved. I understand that my satisfaction may not always be your goal, and I apologize for somewhat abusing the kindness of others searching for answers and asking/forcing you to help me, someone whom you don't know and have never met. I feel I am just at the end of a very long dirt road and I don't know where to turn in order to get to the place I was once at, home.

1) I've seen people use some sort of body language in combination with hand signals across a room to get woman into a trance and even orgasm. What is this exactly? NLP, Hypnosis? Both? Of course it would be awesome to have this kind of ability myself which is partially why I'm asking, but on the flip side, I sometimes notice people trying to do this to my girlfriend while we are out having dinner and such(could this be the case, or am I just imagining it and projecting it onto the two of us, thus creating this mentality and constant worry and stress. I don't believe so as I see physical response/reaction from her). I know that I can't stop everyone's actions, and it would be wrong for me to try and deny my girlfriend from exploring and enjoying whatever her own feelings may be, but if there was a way I could explain to her what is being used/done that could somehow open her mind to it(like being aware of an anchor), also if I could use those techniques myself on her to fulfill her in that way, I know that would make us both happier day in day out. Does anyone know what this "skill" is? Can you lead me in the right direction to learning it for myself?

2) I try to be responsible with my actions, but sometimes seeing others cause and effect without care or remorse, makes me lean towards that type of logic as well, and regrettably at times I have caved. However, I love my girlfriend and am trying to revert changes I may have instilled not knowingly, and protect her to whatever extent she allows me to, and I will do whatever it is I believe is right and what I know from what she tells me she truly believes in her core, now, throughout, and from the beginning of our relationship. That being said. It troubles me that people who know these types of "skills" abuse them on others daily, and that some people do this to the woman I love. For example "crotch points" with anchors and hand signals, I notice that my girlfriend is starting to develop a "lazy eye" because of this, and I don't want everyone thinking she is some sort of slut with penis on her mind all the time! Is there a way I can help her correct her gaze? Her mentality I find at times when things like 1) are happening is down the tubes. She becomes totally engaged, and doesn't realize she has been put into a trance. Pardon my language thus far, but how can I give back control and confidence to her, still keep our emotional/physical relationship strong, whilst not turning her into a total slut, and stop others from turning her into a slut.

3) I love my girlfriend very much, been together for 3 years now we've been living together since the first week we were together, and we have plans to get married. The problem I posted in 1) and 2) seems to only be my problem in that she isn't aware of what I see, as she doesn't know anything about NLP, Hypnosis, Speed Seduction etc.. Whenever I try to bring it to her attention, I think sub-consciously it makes her think negatively of me. How can I let it go when I myself don't know exactly what is being done to her but see the effect it has over her? How can I ignore others and their wicked intentions on my love? Or is that the answer to my own question? Am I to just let her think this is someone else being natural and let her choose freely the things in life that have been manipulated to exploit her but are not really designed for her true happiness or her best intentions at heart? Please don't say yes.

Learning what I learn and applying it is only because I'm in love and I want to keep this relationship strong and give everything I can to fulfill my partner and our lives. Please have some understanding, and help me find the path. Forgive me if I have been hypocritical at times and demanding. Sorry for the long read.

Thank you for your time.

-NoobSeducer