Hello, this is my very first post here. I am a complete newbie to NLP...but I believe it works because I used some NLP techniques in the past to cram for a promotion exam in the Air Force. It was extremely successful then, so I'm hoping it will be for this situation also. This time I'm trying to find some help for an urgent problem facing my wife. For privacy reasons, I'll skip some of the details, but the gist of it is this. She is a manager employed by [details removed]. She is well known here as the "go to" person for the pertinent regulations for her work. She is..in my opinion...suffering from perfectionism. She is more concerned with getting her job done right than anyone around her...either up or down the chain of command. No one cares more about getting the job right than she does, but the stress is killing her. She is very reluctant to delegate tasks, but even though she works late, she can't do everything. If she pushes subordinates to work harder, they complain that she is too harsh, but if she slacks off then her superiors may view her as a slacker....or so she fears. She feels like she is on a lifeboat floating alone in a sea of incompetence. She is constantly dissatisfied with the quality of work by those around her. I really don't know how much more of it she can take before it starts effecting her health. This posting is my cry for help on her behalf. If anyone reading this can point me to some type of resource (audio, video, anything) that could help her, I would be extremely thankful. I know my wife can overcome this with the right tools. She has a Masters Degree and is very smart. Anyone have any ideas ?